Thread: which song is the definitive 'Millennial' anthem?
Contenders named for the definitive Millennial anthem include The Killers' "Mr. Brightside," Lil Jon and the East Side Boyz's "Get Low," Chumbawamba's "Tubthumping," and Elton John's "Candle in the Wind (1997)." Other frequent nominations span Jimmy Eat World's "The Middle," Owl City's "Fireflies," Passion Pit's "Take a Walk," Goldfinger's "Superman" from Tony Hawk's Pro Skater, and remix hits like Steve Aoki's version of Kid Cudi's "Pursuit of Happiness." Supporters point to ubiquity and cultural context: "Mr. Brightside" dominates karaoke and stadium playlists, "Fireflies" defines late-2000s bedroom-pop, and "Candle in the Wind (1997)" became omnipresent through a global mourning moment. Picking a single anthem matters because it crystallizes which songs shaped Millennial identity across radio, gaming soundtracks, memorial moments, and party rituals.
had a debate last night about the definitive millennial song. some contenders: mgmt’s “kids,” yeah yeah yeah’s “maps,” kanye’s “all of the lights,” arcade fire’s “wake up,” postal service’s “such great heights,” animal collective’s “my girls,” lcd soundsystem’s “all my friends,” stroke’s “last nite”
the rules are intuitive but basically the song should be something nigh-universal for millennials but that didn’t really escape our generational cohort (sorry rihanna, beyoncé, “mr brightside,” “dancing on my own,” “seven nation army.”) it’s specifically millennial in form and appeal.
Phoenix "lisztomania" popular enough AOC made a music video featuring it but largely stayed within millennials.
It’s really gotta be Such Great Heights
Jimmy Eat World's "The Middle" also comes to mind.
Way too much indie rock on here. The real answer is in another genre. Think Temperature by Sean Paul, Milkshake by Kelis, Since U Been Gone by Kelly Clarkson.
Hoobastank - "the reason" Snow Patrol - "chasing cars" Death cab for cutie - "I'll follow you into the dark" These are the three songs I think of as being very relevant in the mid-2000s and then never hearing them again except for nostalgia
It’s Mr Brightside and Ms Jackson. They’re a couple. They’re dating
No Sum41 or Lit? No one knows Flagpole Sitta anymore
Gorillaz’ “Feel Good Inc.” maybe, too?
this is a white ass list my friend
Postal Service is probably it but millennials also have a fondness for wheatus “Teenage Dirtbag”, which I am not sure I’ve ever heard aside from millennials singing it at karaoke.
Every single millenial, no matter what their race, culture, religion, or musical preferences, knows every goddamned word to I Want It That Way.
By this logic (which I kind of agree with) it should be Rebecca Black's "Friday."
Has anyone mentioned Avril yet? Complicated was every 14 year old girl's anthem it felt like and I couldn't even tell you the last time I heard it
I'm afraid to tell you that it is Beverly Hills by Weezer
"Pumped Up Kicks" by Foster the People is probably the answer both for its ubiquity and it's lyrics' relevance
Comments making me feel like this is a ”two americas” sort of thing.
Its obviously "Thong Song" by Sisqó. I mean, what are we doing here? Make your booty go!
As a high school teacher I have to eliminate “Maps,” it was a TikTok meme as recently as last year
like it or not its “party rock anthem”, you couldn’t escape it for a few years no matter how hard you tried, it was there, wherever you turned.
Florence + The Machine "Dog Days Are Over" has gotta be up there
I Believe in a Thing Called Love feels relevant
Is 'Fat Lip' by Sum 41 too early? 'What's My Age Again' by Blink 182 also.
Other contenders: Phoenix's 1901 or maybe Lisztomania; Something by Fitz and the Tantrums. Probably Outta My League or Handclap Also... Does the entire Garden State soundtrack scan more as Gen X or Millennial (as it's *extremely* Xennial)?
So the real way you measure this quantitatively is by going to the weddings of people in their late 20s early 30s and using a decibel meter for the crowd reaction to each song
"Are you gonna be my girl" by Jet or Le Tigre's "Deceptacon". Any song that played in either a mobile phone company or an iPod ad is a strong contender.
I regret to inform you it's Drops of Jupiter
I'm a Xennial our anthems are already codified (Longview, Torn, and Tubthumping)
this list really does paint a beautiful picture
Ok fun exercise, but I think the problem here is that trying to nail down "definitively millennial" is like a 3-card monte game of our pre-9/11, post-9/11, and Great Recession eras. You point to one and a thousand people pop up and make the totally valid point that it's gotta be another.
I think it broke contain slightly with later memes, but “Fireflies” by Owl City has to be in the running
It's absolutely panic at the disco - I write sins not tragedies
I know Kids charted higher, but I’d argue Time to Pretend is the MGMT track to beat
I regret to inform it’s likely “I Gotta Feeling” by Black Eyes Peas. It was inescapable through like all of 09-10 but it’s disappeared since, because if you weren’t at prime drinking and partying age when it was guaranteed to be on at a club, you think it’s fucking corny.
"Hey Ya!" belongs on there.
Anyway, “Wolf Like Me”, TV On The Radio
I hear Stacy's Mom has got it going on
I replied to a quote but Flo Rida’s “Low” is one for me. Kanye’s “Flashing Lights” hits me more in the nostalgia. A few more: Sleepyhead by Passion Pit, L.E.S. Artistes by Santigold
How to save a life- The Fray
Maybe “We Are Young” by fun?
Jimmy Eat World's "The Middle" is up there.
Yeah by Usher. I cannot imagine anyone avoided that one and most people my age and at least 5 years on either side have always known it. Some of these other recs are wayyyy more obscure than I think yall realize.
I'll actually go with The Lonely Island's "I'm on a Boat."
Okay I’ve revised my opinion. Anything too early 90s won’t hit the young millennials. Anything too mid-2000s will miss the old millennials. So… I think it needs to be something in the ‘98-‘01 release range. So I’m going with: 3 Doors Down - Kryptonite Train - Drops of Jupiter
Whatever with the no Rihanna rules, the correct answer is "Umbrella."
I'm an American millennial, I have never in my life heard any of these.
It's Franz Ferdinand's "Take Me Out"
dawg i know its on me but i never heard of any of these let alone heard them
Bloc Party “blue light” Regina Spektor “fidelity” modest mouse “float on” or “the world at large” probably also the shins and broken bells Could also add “pumped up kicks” and stretching layer “call me maybe”
"Chop Suey" by System of a Down. In addition to its many obvious credentials, the album came out on 9/11.
All Star and Californication were huge when I was in 5th grade
Sufjan Stevens: “Chicago” Phoenix: “1901” The Shins: “New Slang”
Throwing my "House of Jealous Lovers" by The Rapture hat into the ring.
Postal Service and Strokes are X-ennial jams, to me, an X-ennial.
I can't believe so few people are skeeting Aww Skeet Skeet You have to Get Low On the list to find it. And that's not right. Also it might be Outkast.
My wife just made a strong case for “No One Knows” by Queens of the Stone Age” based primarily on the lyrics
The answer is Mr. Brightside. Now i would also contend that it's possibly "Clint Eastwood" but I don't know if we're ready to have conversation.
kesha, tik tok or die young
It’s Such Great Heights. Clearly and definitively
We’re the only generation that does the “It’s Gonna Be (May)” gig, so It’s Gonna Be Me has to be there if we’re talking songs which *didn’t* break generational containment.
Okay I still say Mr Brightside even with the follow-up disclaimer but will also posit The Scientist or Chasing Cars. Maybe Float On. In my heart An Honest Mistake by The Bravery deserved more but it never got there.
While I understand your point about Beyoncé and most of her songs don’t apply, I think Single Ladies is a uniquely millennial song
Ladytron’s ‘Destroy Everything You Touch’? although they’ve just released a new album and it’s pretty solid, so maybe too enduring for the brief
Midnight City - M83 This is it. This is the answer
While I too would prefer it was one of these cool songs, we all seem to be forgetting how Gangnam Style took over the world for a while and now we all know what K-pop is
The Rapture - House of Jealous Lovers Beirut - Nantes Cat Power - The Greatest Amy Winehouse - Rehab Sleater Kinney - Jumpers
Accurate list, every one a bullseye, Pumped Up Kicks is in that bracket too
I think we’re overestimating how many millennials would know this list of songs. I know charts are not everything, but the only one of these to make any sort of chart impact is All of the Lights. Thinking back to high school I know the specific friend group who would have been listening to these.
I have a feeling you're going to be having this debate for another night or two
I submit “feel good inc” as just last week me (1991) and my coworker (1994) couldn’t believe that our other coworker (1999) had never heard of it before
I’m sorry, but it’s either “Waterfalls” or “Say My Name”
EVERYBODY'S FREE (to wear sunscreen) m.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7...
How are there no Blink songs here? What's My Age Again? Dammit?
If we are just doing white alternative millennials, it's Kids. If we are going beyond that, it's Hey Ya.
It's obviously Fireflies by Owl City.
Diary of Jane by Breaking Benjamin, Paper Planes by MIA, Hey Ya, Party in the USA by Miley, Numb by Linkin Park, Wake Me Up When September Ends by Green Day, and I Write Sins Not Tragedies by Panic all feel definitively millennial
The way this gives me an existential crisis, considering I don’t know any of these.
As a Gen Xer, I‘d want to know if there is something as thematically on-point for millennials as Smells Like Teen Spirit - which isn’t the “best” Gen X song, but the one that most clearly articulates what our generation is purportedly about. That’s our anthem, no question.
Not every millennial is a weirdo indy kid.
My vote was going to be for "Hey Ya," but now I'm veering towards "I'm Really Hot" by Missy Elliott.
I would say “Kids” even though it is borderline annoying (just like Millennials tbh)
If it's something all millennials seem to know, my extensive research indicates it's actually Don't Stop Believing (Journey).
I am an elder millennial and I have heard precisely zero of these songs and, besides Kanye for all the wrong reasons, I am vaguely aware of maybe one other group.
As a millennial, I have heard of exactly 1 of these.
i vote Such Great Heights
Sorry it's Mr Brightside there's no contest.
“I’m Yours” by Jason Mraz. Juuusst big enough to have not broken containment.
I know zero of these, even the Kanye one. I know other Kanye songs, but not that one. The rest of those I've never heard of in my life.
going to have to go with Such Great Heights because I don't recognize any of the other songs, also I remember it being played at the first college house party I went to
Does Awolnation Sail count as millennial?
It’s Mr Brightside, and it isn’t particularly close.
The answer is anything ying yang twins
The Shin’s “New Slang” and Dispatches “The General” also deserve consideration IMO
Black Keys - Lonely Boy - Yes it was a huge hit, but basically by hitting mono-culture amongst millennials. Also it was/is a good song & video.
I personally love MGMT "kids". I don't think Kanye can be on the list, because he got cancelled and also because trying to meet your cultural definition is impossible. Why "all of the lights" instead of "runaway" or "Heartless". Is OutKast "Hey Ya" too mainstream?
I said it was a song my wife has never heard and she said it was one I've never heard, so I don't know where that leaves millennials as a whole 🤔
i'm so sorry to bring this up, but if you're going like total population of american millenials it might be "the reason" by hoobastank. other possibilities: "drive" by incubus "higher" by creed
Pumped Up Kicks, but Kids is also a good one.
this is an excellent list. I will say that as someone on the other end of the millennial cohort I understand why younger genx people take issue with some of these lol. eventually I listened to some of these songs in high school but was a child when they came out.
After sleeping on it, I now realize it’s actually the theme song from The Office.
Buttons.. Promiscuous… What about Fallin’? Eminem’s Stan? I think Millennials went through such a search of shit that it’s really gonna have to be hyper local. Hah
If someone bombed this thread there would be zero 42 year olds left on Bluesky.
Kid cudi - pursuit of happiness
It’s get low by lil john and the ying yang twins and it’s not particularly close
I’ve always thought Kid Cudi’s Pursuit of Happiness was the quintessential millennial anthem
I'm a baby millennial and only recognize such great heights and all of the lights
You just ruled out half the definitive millennial songs
We are Young by Fun, but probably only for mid to late millennials
as non-American, so my entry is Wir sind Helden with „Denkmal". all good songs listed here though
Electric Feel is MGMTs definitive millennial song
cold war kids, ‘hang me up to dry’
I gotta go with maps, but I think it being a guitar hero song made it break millennial containment.
It's gotta be Float On, right?
Why haven’t I seen The Knife’s Heartbeats listed yet?!?!?
Personally I don’t even understand what anyone’s even debating, when we all know what the real answer is
I hate maps, but it's maps
You party with a lot of white people.
What about that Baz Luhrman sunscreen song
Not the winner but "Chicago" should be on the list of contenders.
Chief Keef's "Sosa," Avicii "Levels," Miley Cyrus "Wrecking Ball," Kanye West "Good Life," Sia "Elastic Heart"
Is it Good Riddance by Green Day?
We don’t actually know what the definitive millennial song is because it was mislabeled when we got it off Kazaa
I recall a track labeled “Mrs. Robinson - Beatles”
Gin and juice cover by Blink 182
Someone picked up the phone while we were trying to download it from Limewire
It was beautiful for those 5 seconds right before that .exe file caused the computer to explode.
So um, we only used programs like Kazaa and limewire to download music and only music right guys? Right
I'm happy the "name the most millennial song" has devolved into "remember some songs" it's what social media is for
Remember some X is just a great game. Because people like to remember some X. I’m remembering some X right now.
There is no point in debating when we can just simply reminisce
this is our "we drank from the hose"
Chris Farley interviewing millennials on bsky
remember some guys, remember some songs, two sides of the same coin
"What is the most __ song" is a way better prompt than "What is the best __ song" because people will fight to the death for their favorites but will sit and reflect seriously for a moment if Who Let The Dogs Out was a bedrock of 2000s culture even if they don't like it. Way better vibes!
the “most millennial song” discourse is the best thing that’s happened on bluesky in months, we’re all just Remembering Some Songs and having the best time
if you’re not a sports person and have never gotten to Remember Some Guys: this is what it’s like
I haven't seen anybody mention green day's good riddance which was absolutely our melancholy graduation song for every level of schooling below high school
Not necessarily good songs, but the collective memory is a genuinely enjoyable experience.
Lou Bega - Mambo Number 5
I had a little bit of an existential breakdown the other day when I realized it had been more than twenty years since I first heard All the Things She Said.
I legit unfollowed someone who tried to drop yuck on that thread. Any conversation about music and the memories it creates is a good conversation. And any music that elicits feeling is meaningful music.
Music discourse is fun, but as someone born barely on the X side, I’m aghast at all the songs of my youth that millennials are claiming. I was hoping some follow cuspers would chime in on this to make me feel better. bsky.app/profile/theo...
This week, I saw a group of high school kids in my town circled up, kicking a hacky sack, and listening to shaggy on a boombox. This discourse is important—the youths are looking to us for guidance.
I understand that as an Xer my opinion doesn't count, but I will warn you that our brains did not really survive similar discourse when it happened to us
I feel like the song that really divorced me from any relevance from milenials (younger gen x here) was that vitamin C 'Graduation' song, which was...inescapable. Just...everywhere. Before that I sort of figured my music would remain dominant for a while. (Still confused how Nirvana returned)
I had a habit of watching MTV in the mornings while getting ready for school when I was in high school. There was a particular stretch of six months or so where - no matter what else they played - they ALWAYS put on "One Headlight" and "The Perfect Drug" at some point. Forever stuck in my memory.
WHY CAN'T WE DO THE GEN X VERSION OF THIS? IF I VOTE IN THIS, DO I MESS UP THE RESULTS? WHAT HAPPENS IF I MESS UP THE RESULTS?
honestly the most conspicuous fact about all of the "most millennial song" candidates is that they're all fucking awful, and this seems predestined by the criteria. it has to be a song that made it on pop radio or youtube and that everyone over 25 heard and immediately hated
for this reason we must disqualify, among others, all of daft punk, miley cyrus, probably even imagine dragons. linkin park is also too good. it has to be so bad that nobody still listens to them and nobody whose brain wasn't still putty tolerated them at the time
All these other posts drive a pretty hard bargain but why are we pretending it's anything other than this. youtu.be/kffacxfA7G4
By this criteria, we have to revise our submissions from good songs to Butterfly by Crazy Town
All Star. I do not make the rules. Now I need a pennance spanking. Fuck.
As someone who had to listen to the radio during my high-school job at Red Robin, it's fucking Hey There Delilah. IT'S WHAT YOU DO TO ME OH IT'S WHAT YOU DO TO MEEEE
I nominate Train - Hey Soul Sister
hey there delilah what's it like in new york city
Crazy Frog - Axel F (and really anything else by Crazy Frog in my opinion)
The most millennial song must be from Shrek, sorry.
Back off I'll take you on Headstrong I'll take on millennials
Hold on. Kids was mentioned as a candidate, and Kids is among the 13 or 327 songs that is not *worse* than any other song (the boys are back in town, she loves you, all too well, Atlantic City, motion sickness, etc)
You don't like Animal Collective My Girls??
The answer is, of course All-Star.
Hey ya is great and is the answer.
"Moves Like Jagger" I feel like there may be a worse Maroon 5 song but I'm blanking
Hey ya is objectively awesome
Mr Brightside is good, actually
Too awful and a song gets referenced and remembered. I'm going with Come With Me Now by The Kongos as just mediocre enough to vanish. Think it only lives on soundtracks, where it is music-that-doesn't-distract on purpose.
Bring Me To Life is the one that keeps coming to mind for me
Okay, my submission: Macklemore, Thrift Shop
Exiting this thread for my sanity
"Stereo" by maroon 5 and uh somebody cooler than maroon 5?
the "Most Millennial Song" discourse is fundamentally flawed. the "Most Millennial Song" is not going to be a song released by a commercial artist that received significant airplay. it's a youtube mashup. specifically this one:
the most millennial song is the song that was most thrown on by the nerdy guy at the party who got too high and commandeered the laptop plugged into someone's dying ihome speaker
ceej look what you've sparked look at the damage you've done
A really drunk guy tried to grind on me at a Hood Internet show at the 7th Street Entry in like 2012. We still laugh about it.
Ceej why would you say something so controversial yet so accurate
I took acid and had ego death while seeing girl talk at a music festival in 2011 when I was 19. It saved me from becoming what they call a "wook".
The advent of mashups (I believe started at Bootie in San Francisco) was more important than people give credit for.
This would definitely get play at college dorm pregames www.youtube.com/watch?v=i97P...
Appropriate cancellation aside this was always my favorite youtu.be/LCKAPNcmd-I?...
Ooh, I'd posit this one as well: www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNzr...
Related: Girl Talk's Knife remix is one of the best mashups ever released.
Maybe, but this is the Grizzly Bear mashup I remember us playing all the time: youtu.be/KlnLuUy5IEE?...
most millennial song? strongbad's trogdor song.
@ceej.online I went to see the hood internet play live at the art museum in chicago once. I was so starstruck I bought a cocktail with a $20 bill and forgot to take my change. at the time that was like accidentally donating your entire car to goodwill
Hood Internet…now there is a name I have not heard in a long time Also this feels like cheating because they are picking the most millennial-coded songs in the world and taping them together
if it's a mashup, it's going to be an explicitly *pre-youtube* mashup, that was spread through each and every file-sharing medium specifically this one (eminem and ragtime piano)
It's obvious that "most Millennial song" needs to be a bracket of some type
So many different subregions. Like, who comes out of the one with Unwritten, I'm Like A Bird and A Thousand Miles in it?
R Kelly running away with the canceled region
original post is very [liberal arts college]
This thread could have been a listicle.
also only gen z should get to vote to make us all crazy
no, sorry, the chainsmokers are the zoomers’ fault. they do not get the millennial song. it’s probably “mr brightside” or “hey ya”
this actually gives me pause because grantland is awful bsky.app/profile/toll...
it’s “Mr. Brightside” for white Millennials, “Hey Ya!” for a more inclusive demographic slice imo
Grantland did the bracket. It was indeed “Hey Ya”
I like The Killers and Mr Brightside is bad, their worst song by far
Ah yeah. It's hey ya
I saw "Smooth" by Santana ft Rob Thomas as a candidate.
Hey Ya can’t be the millennial song when the video was boomer nostalgia!!