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Couples kept apart by the war in Gaza

newsOct 17, 202629150

The Guardian profiles Wijdan Abu Matar, 43, who fled Gaza with eight children for medical treatment while her injured husband, Hatem, remained in Nuseirat. An Israeli strike on 17 October 2023 hit the al-Muhandseen tower near their home, injuring every family member; daughter Nour, 15, suffered a fractured skull and brain bleeding and spent about 33 days in intensive care, while five-year-old Amna had severe chest burns and Amna and three-and-a-half-year-old Aysel were treated at a different hospital for 15 days. Wijdan travelled to Egypt on 30 November 2023 with Nour; months later she gathered her children in one apartment but remains separated from Hatem, who is displaced in a tent and has a serious leg injury limiting his mobility. Hatem stopped receiving a salary 10 months ago and Wijdan has no regular income, relying on donations and struggling to afford Nour’s medication and school transport for five children. Wijdan says she has lost 35 members of her family in the war and describes being exhausted by bearing both parental roles; poor internet in Gaza also makes phone contact with Hatem intermittent. The article places this family's story in the wider toll of the conflict, noting the 7 October Hamas attack killed 1,200 people and citing Gaza health ministry figures of at least 73,783 Palestinians killed and 174,738 wounded, and an independent UN inquiry that found Israel continues to commit genocide by deliberately targeting Palestinian children in Gaza.

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